Your nervous system doesn’t get a break just because the pager does. The constant state of readiness, the adrenaline surges, and the need to stay alert can leave your body stuck in high gear long after the call is over.

The "Window of Tolerance" is a beautiful way to visualize how much stress or emotion your nervous system can handle before it tips into overwhelm (hyperarousal: anxiety, anger, panic) or shutdown (hypoarousal: numbness, dissociation, depression).

Trauma is not always a single dramatic event. Sometimes it is the slow drip of unmet needs, chronic stress, neglect, or feeling chronically unsafe in body or relationships.